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Men's Resources

a helpful tool as you pursue being a man of God

Men are unique in their design for a reason. Below, you will find announcements, resources, and encouragement in issues related to being a man.

Upcoming Men's Events!

We had our first ever Men's Retreat this fall, and it was a huge success.  We had 85 men get away for a night to bond over activities and competitions, great food with plenty of it, and a chance to hear and discuss what it means to be a Man of God!  As we think through next steps, we have been brainstorming ways to allow men of different lifestages and journeys to learn from each other and spur one another on in their pursuit of becoming the men that God desires them to be.    Younger guys will learn from the experience of their elders, and the older men will be inspired and energized by the younger guys.  Our next event is coming up!

Monday, January 30th, 7pm-9pm, Flood Offices
What is a transcendent cause?  What would it look like if we gave our lives to something bigger than ourselves?  How do we figure out how our lives fit into what God is doing throughout the world?  We want to gather as men and learn from each other and encourage each other as we each try to figure out what God is inviting us to do with our lives.  We will have a panel with some lively discussion as we figure out how to be Men Built for Others.  And we will be eating some pizza!  Please RSVP so we can plan accordingly. 

Questions or RSVP:  Contact Eric Lehman

Theme for Men's Events:  Building Men for Others

In order to have a common language as we pursue Biblical masculinity, we have picked a theme for all events within the Men's ministry: Building Men for Others. This theme is inspired by the book, “Season of Life: A Football Star, a Boy, a Journey to Manhood” by Jeffrey Marx. It’s the story of Joe Erhmann, who was a professional football player turned minister. The book follows a high school football team through a challenging season and highlights some inspiring principles of manhood that transcend the arena of football. Regardless of your interest in sports, Marx uses a combination of stories, conversations, and "chapels" to share Ehrmann's inspirational view of what it means to be a Man Built for Others. The definition of masculinity and the code of conduct described in this book is the foundation for the journey we are on together.

Men's Event Email

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Sexual Purity Resources

Core Groups for Men
Core Groups for Men

FMO (For Men Only) Sexual Integrity & Purity Group
Dates: Sunday nights, February 12 - April 1 (Can't wait until then? Contact Adam)
Time:
6pm
Location:
Flood Offices (3878 Ruffin Rd., Ste. A, SD 92115)
Description:
The Church has largely been silent on issues dealing with sexual integrity. We, at Flood, want to combat the secrecy and silence with a group that is only for guys and will deal specifically with sexual purity. If you are dealing with sexual sins and are stuck in a pattern of shame and guilt, then this group, led by a trained facilitator, is a great start! The Bible tells us to confess our sins to one another and bring our sins into the light, exposing the darkness to God 's Truth!
Cost:  $10, which includes a book and workbook
Contact: Purity@DIVEintoFLOOD.com

Sacred Sexuality Workshop
Times: Recurring
Featuring Charlie Ruce, of the Soul Care House. Charlie is a gifted speaker and therapist who uses his unique story to encourage men who have struggled with sexual integrity and desire to see lasting growth in their lives. Sacred Sexuality is about finding hope and a new future as a man of God who was made to express a healthy sexuality, free from destructive behaviors.
Contact Charlie Ruce: charlie@soulcarehouse.com

Series Seminar: Sex is Good, not a god
Dates: Sunday night, February 12
Time:
6pm
Location:
Flood Offices (3878 Ruffin Rd., Ste. A, SD 92115)
Description:
The cultural gods of sex promise much and demand even more from us. But sex has never made a good god. In fact, pursuing the lie that we need sex (pleasurable satisfaction), actually leads to misery. Only the God of sex can fulfill our deepest desires of intimacy—to be loved, wanted, desired and chosen .
Contact: ScottWildey@DIVEintoFLOOD.com

Other Resources for Men 

Setting Captives free
An online support group that offers Christ-centered hope and freedom to those in the grip of sin through accountability to Bible-based truth resulting in the true enjoyment of life in and for the glory of God. SettingCaptivesFree.com

Flood Sexual Purity Email
If you would like to receive periodic emails with encouragement, resource s, and announcements related to sexual purity, follow this link to sign up.

Porn-Again Christian: A Frank Discussion about Pornography & Masturbation
Click here to download the new book by pastor Mark Driscoll.

XXXChurch.com
A website that brings awareness, openness, accountability and recovery to the church, society and individuals on the issue of pornography. Viewer s can access a virtual Prayer Wall, Blogs, and other ways to combat porn. Accountability software can be downloaded for FREE > from ood.com/templates/flood/scripts/tiny_mce/themes/advanced/langs/en.js" type="text/javascript"> this website. The program logs websites visited by the computer and allows the user to select a trusted friend(s) to whom the email log goes to.

Safe Eyes
Almost everyone has anti-virus software to keep their computer safe. But what about software to keep us safe from the virus of sin infecting us through our computers? Don't let yourself float in the open water of unfiltered internet access and rely on your own strength to resist temptation. For the same price as most anti-virus software, Safe Eyes protects up to 3 computers for $49.95 per year. You can purchase and download the program on the website.
Note: This software even works for computer experts. If you think you can get around the filter, email thall@amor.org for information about setting up Safe Eyes on your computer.


Counseling Referrals

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